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The Uncomfortable Truth about Kink

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June 22, 2010
The Uncomfortable Truth about Kink

I have to thank @quietriot_girl for prompting this post. We had a short exchange on twitter about it. She has some very insightful takes on things. Please visit her site. Photo: miss_blackbutterfly I once knew a man with a deeply rooted shoe fetish. He didn’t just like shoes, or think they were sexy on...
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The Woman that is not Woman; The Sex that is not Sex

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May 23, 2010

Caroline Nevin, an artist, (@RubiesAreBlue) tweeted up this Italian documentary: Il Corpo Delle Donne (The Bodies of Women). This project took off as a matter of urgency. It all started with the observation that women–real women–are an endangered species on television, one that is being replaced by a grotesque, vulgar and humiliating representation. We...
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For Crimes Against Chastity

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May 14, 2010

I try not to bring too much of the concrete world into this blog because, for the most part it’s a place for fiction. However, this particular event has been on my mind for a long time – burning holes in my stomach, like a slumbering coal. I caught this video again, on @jojinbo‘s...
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“Don’t let someone take & eat your heart” #hearteater

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May 12, 2010
“Don’t let someone take & eat your heart” #hearteater

The very lovely and talented CD Christian suggested that an interesting ‘moral of the story’ for a fable, parable or fairytale would be: “Don’t let someone take and eat your heart.” I thought it had so many possibilities both literal and metaphorical, ephemeral or visceral, liminal or concrete. So, I lay down an informal...
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The Moral of the Story

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May 10, 2010
The Moral of the Story

I”ve received quite a number of emails and DMs on twitter asking me what the moral of the last story, Salt of the Earth, was since it read so much like a fable or a parable. Firstly, I’d like to explain a little of how the story came about. I’ve been going through a...
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Review of my anthology: Steven Hart at Erotica Revealed

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May 3, 2010
Review of my anthology: Steven Hart at Erotica Revealed

I’ve arrived home in time to find the most wonderful present awaiting me. Steven Hart at Erotica Revealed has reviewed my Coming Together Presents: Remittance Girl anthology. It is the sort of review that any writer would give their eye teeth for. Hugely positive and generous, it’s always nice to read a review and...
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Disclosure

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April 21, 2010
Disclosure

I just finished reading Dae’s post at Sadistic Excess. It left me in an oddly weepy mood. Not because he’s going to take his writing down, or because he’s decided to embark on something new. I think it made me sort of ashamed. He, like a number of other bloggers I know, is very...
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The Ethics and Eroticism of Non-Consensual Sex in Fiction

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April 5, 2010
The Ethics and Eroticism of Non-Consensual Sex in Fiction

Both Kitty Thomas and Pillow Talker wrote posts on this topic. And a long and frustrating twitter discussion then led to a chat session with various other people. Kitty Thomas’ post: “The Short Skirt Defense” is here. Pillow Talker’s: “My Reply to Kitty Thomas” is here. There are very few erotica publishers who will...
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Metaphor in Erotica

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March 28, 2010
Metaphor in Erotica

“The mastodon hours lumber their way into extinction, sinking wearily into the sticky tar pit of the evening” In the last piece of flash fiction, I used the above imagery – a metaphor – that prompted the following comment from Oatmeal Girl: “I could hate you for this. I was going to say I...
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Setting & Theme

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February 15, 2010
Setting & Theme

I decided to write this post in coordination with the release of my novel, The Waiting Room, partly because reviewing Emma Holt’s edits forced my head back to Cambodia, and partly because, for those of you who have already read the novel, I thought a discussion about setting in the story might be interesting....
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